By Sphiwe Ngwenya
In the heart of Hammanskraal, a community stands united in grief, honoring the life of Bra Piet Raphekwane. Friends, neighbors, and colleagues gather to pay tribute to a man whose presence brought laughter, wisdom, and inspiration. As we mourn, we also express our gratitude for having known him—a brother, father, and friend whose legacy will forever resonate in our lives.
Bra Piet’s departure leaves a profound sadness in our hearts. Yet, as we reflect on his life, we are reminded of the wisdom encapsulated in a Setswana proverb: “Kgaka e ntsho e fofa, mebala re e bona e kotame.” This speaks to the hidden beauty within us all, often revealed only in moments of loss. Today, amidst our sorrow, we recognize the vibrant colors of Bra Piet’s life—the good deeds, sacrifices, and love he shared.
Bra Piet’s passing has left us with unanswered questions and an unsettling sense of loss. His choice to confront life’s challenges head-on serves as a testament to his character. While we grieve, we must remember that his life was about much more than his final moments. We must look beyond the end of his journey and celebrate the richness of his experiences and contributions to our community.
Born and raised in Temba, Bra Piet learned early on the value of hard work and perseverance. His career began at the Bophuthatswana National Development Corporation, where he transformed his job into a platform for growth. With skill and diplomacy, he proved that black enterprise could thrive, inspiring those around him to recognize the potential within their own lives.
From his beginnings at BNDC, Bra Piet co-founded Niks Mini, a cornerstone of Temba’s retail landscape. This shopping complex was not merely a business; it was a beacon of hope and pride for the community, demonstrating that local enterprises could compete with larger chains. In a time when many local businesses falter, Bra Piet’s success serves as a reminder of the resilience and potential that exists within our townships.
Bra Piet’s vision extended beyond retail. He ventured into various industries, including quarrying and plant hire, always seeking new opportunities. His entrepreneurial spirit was characterized by a relentless pursuit of excellence, proving that success is not limited by one’s beginnings.
What truly set Bra Piet apart was not just his accomplishments, but his willingness to share his knowledge and uplift others. Many entrepreneurs credit him with igniting their passion and guiding their endeavors. His humility and respect for others fostered an environment where dreams could flourish.
Bra Piet’s contributions to sport, particularly through the Temba Wolves football club, showcased his commitment to nurturing talent and building community identity. The Wolves were more than a team; they represented hope and unity. Bra Piet provided young players with a platform to excel, instilling discipline and purpose.
Bra Piet understood that his success was part of a larger struggle for economic transformation. His commitment to public service was evident in his role as Chairperson of the North West Tender Board, where he championed the inclusion of the previously disadvantaged in the economy. His dedication to fairness and integrity made him a respected leader in our community.
Beyond his professional achievements, we remember Bra Piet as a compassionate, caring individual. His laughter was a balm for the weary, and his kindness knew no bounds. He created a space where people felt valued and heard, embodying the essence of community.
As we celebrate Bra Piet’s legacy, we must also reflect on the societal pressures faced by men. Too often, boys are taught to suppress their emotions, carrying burdens in silence. Bra Piet’s life reminds us of the importance of vulnerability and the strength found in seeking help. Let us honor his memory by fostering environments where openness and support are encouraged.
To the youth, let Bra Piet’s journey inspire you to dream boldly and believe in yourselves. To fellow entrepreneurs, may his example motivate you to share knowledge and uplift your communities. And to all, let us live with compassion, laughter, and care, keeping his spirit alive in our daily lives.
To the Raphekwane family, your grief is shared by us all. Bra Piet was not just yours; he was a part of Hammanskraal’s fabric. His life is intertwined with many, and in our collective love, may you find strength.
Friends, while grief is real, so is memory. As we remember Bra Piet, we see the colors of his life—the love, the laughter, and the legacy that will endure. As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate.” By this measure, Bra Piet lived well. His spirit continues to guide us, reminding us that while he may no longer be with us in body, his legacy thrives in the hearts of all he touched.
Rest in peace, Bra Piet Raphekwane. Your laughter, compassion, and unwavering spirit will live on in us all.
